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Posted by ian24 on December 22, 2003, at 21:59:31
Anyway I was flipping out because I'm dealing with addictions right now and tend to fly into what is close to rage at random people.
Posted by socialdeviantjeff on December 23, 2003, at 3:38:15
In reply to Sorry Socialdeviantjeff, posted by ian24 on December 22, 2003, at 21:59:31
Thanks. Don't worry about it. I don't know what Dr. Bob may do but my hard feelings are over. I can see where a misunderstanding could have occurred. My coordination is bad due to meds and I probably checked the wrong box.
Even with the best of attempted self control our anger can get the best of us. Especially on a board where people try to vent such issues. I don't appreciate being called an a-hole so publicly, expecially since I use this site exclusively for online support. But I understand the place your anger came from. Addiction is a really hard one to beat.
I've had posts here with no or odd responses. It just happens. Yes, sometimes I resent it but I have to remember that the human beings on the other end of the line have reasons for not responding and it's not personal.
Hit me up if you want to talk off the boards:
[email protected]
Yahoo IM: socialdeviantjeff (rarely on)
Posted by Karen_kay on December 23, 2003, at 11:48:27
In reply to Re: Sorry Socialdeviantjeff » ian24, posted by socialdeviantjeff on December 23, 2003, at 3:38:15
Wow! Apparent proof that you are in fact a kind and considerate person! That's wonderful! You have a forgiving heart. I applaud you.
Posted by ian24 on December 23, 2003, at 15:18:14
In reply to Re: Sorry Socialdeviantjeff » socialdeviantjeff, posted by Karen_kay on December 23, 2003, at 11:48:27
It is like my shrink said I imagine everyones motives like they are all ignoring me then I get angry over something I don't know is true or not and the I behave like a jerk and my fantasy that people don't like me I make true l
Posted by ian24 on December 23, 2003, at 15:38:00
In reply to Re: Sorry Socialdeviantjeff, posted by ian24 on December 23, 2003, at 15:18:14
Oh, and thanks Jeff.
Posted by socialdeviantjeff on December 24, 2003, at 3:03:38
In reply to Re: Sorry Socialdeviantjeff, posted by ian24 on December 23, 2003, at 15:38:00
No problem. We're cool. I tend to do the same thing, acting out at people because their intentions weren't clear. In fact, I came to the bleeding edge of losing my crappy job because of it. I actually lashed out at my Boss's boss's boss's boss for the wrong reason.
If the message were reversed towards you, or if I replied with Ian24 is a such and such, I'll bet you would find a lot of friends on this board you didn't know you had. You can count me as one of them.
Take care
Posted by KimberlyDi on December 24, 2003, at 9:18:26
In reply to Re: Sorry Socialdeviantjeff, posted by ian24 on December 23, 2003, at 15:18:14
> It is like my shrink said I imagine everyones motives like they are all ignoring me then I get angry over something I don't know is true or not and the I behave like a jerk and my fantasy that people don't like me I make true l
My husband acts like that when he doesn't take his Paxil and Blood Pressure meds. People respond differently to a perceived threat. I tend to retreat while my husband prefers to attack. He expends alot of energy and anger, then winds up feeling sheepish and confused.
Wish ya luck!
KDi in TX
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