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Posted by kim79 on August 21, 2005, at 3:00:37
In reply to Re: effexor xr and side effects, posted by TinMan on August 20, 2005, at 15:23:23
Tin "man"
I am so so sorry that your husband doesn't understand about your lack of sex drive. I too used to be "horny" but since taking Effexor my poor poor husband....he was like what happened???
I do find that even if I don't feel like it if I give it a go anyway it ends up feeling good and I have never had a problem with the big "o" I still don't but even after great sex, I still don't crave it like I want to. I could be fine w/o it. I do it for him.
I was on 75mg for awhile and my libido was still ok then. But, I started to get dizzy a lot so my Dr upped my dose to 150mg and that's when the libido dropped and the sleeping and weight gain went up. I think I have been overdosed for the past 3 years (yeas I have been TIRED for 3 years!!!!!! I sleep 10+ hrs a night then nap another 2-3 a day.)
I know I can't have kids until I get this under control (mommy is sleeping ...poor baby!!) but the w/d is a killer and I have no insurance and I just want to taper successfully. I am scared my brain will forget (or already ha forgotten) how to make it's own happy hormone. I'd be happy getting back to 75mg but every time I try to taper it's hard on EVERYONE!!! And now that school is starting up...the timing SUCKS!
I wonder who I really am??? I bet it's a horny skinny chick with bad PMS ( I could live with that!!...LOL so could my husband...I'm STILL moody now even on this meds!!!)
Wonder if I'll ever get to see her (the real me) again?
Kimberly
> Stephie,
>
> Thanks for joining the group. You are right, no one can predict how you will respond on Effexor. I can tell you that I had the same reaction to Zoloft. I became so depressed while on it that I wanted to end my life.
>
> Effexor, on the other hand, has had a very calming effect on me. After taking it for 3 months, however, I am beginning to think that I am on too high of a dose as I feel "overly sedated". All I want to do is sleep. I do not have anxiety attacks anymore. I want to do things that before I took Effexor made me quite anxious. I think much more clearly and slower. I am much more focused.
>
> I, too, am going through menopause and quite frankly, it has been hell. Effexor has made it much more tolerable for me. My husband and I were having marital problems before I started taking it and now, he is quite upset that I am not interested at all in sex. I am going to try Wellbutrin in conjunction with Effexor to see if that helps with the sexual side effects and the sleepiness.
>
> Good luck to you! Keep us posted on how you are doing.
> The Tin"Man"
Posted by graceneeded on August 21, 2005, at 8:57:24
In reply to Re: Effexor and wellbutrin, posted by KMM on August 13, 2005, at 13:52:07
I just started the coming off process of Effexor XR 225mg and starting Wllburtrin last Friday. It did not take long for the headaches and dizziness to start. I am to reduce to 75mr starting next Friday and be off by the next Friday. Started to use Dramamine this morning hope it works.
Posted by graceneeded on August 21, 2005, at 9:10:40
In reply to Re: Weaning from Effexor - Nightmares, posted by emma67 on June 4, 2005, at 1:28:52
I have been on Effexor xr for 4 years and worked up to 225mg. I thought it was great stuff at 150 but had to go up to 225 and the side effects were too much. Started to come down to 150 on Friday 8-19-05 and started Wellburton the same day. The headaches have been unreal along with the sweats and irrational thoughts. I took Dramamine today to see if it helps. I am due to be off Effexor in two weeks. I sure hope the Wellburton helps. Depressed with a headache in Georgia.
Posted by compguy on August 21, 2005, at 22:25:29
In reply to Effexor/body aches, posted by PamA on August 20, 2005, at 11:38:05
> Hi,
>
> Has anyone experience bodyaches on effexor? I'm taking 75mgs now, started with 37.5 (isn't that a stange number) for a week and a half and the 75's I've been on for about 3 or 4 days now. My body aches terrible and pops and cracks.
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> Just wondering,
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> PamPam not sure if anyone has answered you yet but the answere is yea and when i got off effexor it got worse
Posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 6:33:55
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by compguy on August 21, 2005, at 22:25:29
Oh Great. I haven't been on long but feel I should have chosen a different route. My anxiety is WORSE and my heart feels like it's pounding out of my chest, and I can't think or remember anything. I'm taking 75mgs for almost a week now. Hopefully time will help.
Thanks so much for your post I was starting to think I was being ignored (gosh, now should I add paranoia to the list)
Pam
Posted by compguy on August 22, 2005, at 11:34:58
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 6:33:55
What dose did you start out at you should have started at 37.5 for a week or two and worked your way up. Are you takeing anything else with it for your anxiety
Posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 12:06:07
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by compguy on August 22, 2005, at 11:34:58
I started at 37.5 for just over a week and have been on 75's for about a week. The Dr. prescribed me Adavan (sp?) for the anxiety today.
Posted by compguy on August 22, 2005, at 12:27:44
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 12:06:07
good that will help i used klonopin be careful as all benzo are addictive what i did was take .25 three times a day for the first week and the two the second week and one the thrid week it help alot i was then able to go a couple months just on the effexor for some reason the effexor quit working i am now trying cymbalta for my anxiety. the muscle pain should subside for you it did for me but it really sucked going through it.Do you have a good support system at home?
Posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 16:28:07
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by compguy on August 22, 2005, at 12:27:44
my support system is pretty good for the most part. My hubby doesn't seem to get it when I can't do something or get frustrated by simple things.
I'm not familar with this adavan business but it seemed to knock the anxiety out quickly. My heart rate was 118 and all I could do was pace. It sucks. There was NOTHING that triggered it at all. I just feel totally overwhelmed by the simplest of things, like what to dress the kids in for their bible club. I know in my head that's supid but at the same time feel over-whelmed.
thanks so much for listening to me. I really appreciate the advice.
Pam
Posted by graceneeded on August 22, 2005, at 21:12:56
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 16:28:07
I know what you mean it is called free floating anxiety and when you tea pot is full it comes out at every little thing. I know it is hard to think about it but a brisk walk daily or just some quiet prayer time may help. I am 49 years old and I lay down infront of the washer and dryer if I am really anxious and spend time with the Healer. The noise of the machines causes me to relax. Just some thoughts. Hang in there! A lot of us suffer the same things. My wife and kids joke that when Daddy is stressed out the clean clothes are endless.
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 22, 2005, at 22:03:04
In reply to Re: Weaning from Effexor - Nightmares, posted by graceneeded on August 21, 2005, at 9:10:40
> Started to come down to 150 on Friday 8-19-05...
Sorry if it's confusing here, but I'd like to redirect follow-ups regarding weaning to Psycho-Babble Withdrawal. Here's a link:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/wdrawl/20050712/msgs/536125.html
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by compguy on August 22, 2005, at 23:24:25
In reply to Re: Effexor/body aches, posted by PamA on August 22, 2005, at 16:28:07
> my support system is pretty good for the most part. My hubby doesn't seem to get it when I can't do something or get frustrated by simple things.
>
> I'm not familar with this adavan business but it seemed to knock the anxiety out quickly. My heart rate was 118 and all I could do was pace. It sucks. There was NOTHING that triggered it at all. I just feel totally overwhelmed by the simplest of things, like what to dress the kids in for their bible club. I know in my head that's supid but at the same time feel over-whelmed.
>
> thanks so much for listening to me. I really appreciate the advice.
>
> PamIt is hard for people to understand anxiety i use to try and hide it i was affraid if people new they would think i was weird, but i have found the more i talk about it a let people know the more understanding they are and that helps, i not scared all the time anymore. So let people know dont be ashamed be proud set small goals for your self keep a journal of your progress and just remember
your not the only one!! o yea nothing with anxiety sounds stupid
Posted by graceneeded on August 23, 2005, at 11:01:17
In reply to Re: Effexor+Depo Provera = Weight gain? Hot flashes.., posted by kim79 on August 21, 2005, at 1:55:21
I am not on menapause but I do get the hot flashes. They come with the least amount of stress or just because they wany to. I have been on Prozac and Zoloft and both were great in their time but then a huge stress event would hit and I get depressed and switched. I got up to 225mg of Effexor XR and the constipation etc... got too much. Started to drop back to 150mg last Friday got hit pretty hard but the Dramamine Less Drowsy really helps with the hangover effect. Will drop to 75mg this Friday and go up on my Wellbutron till it replaces the Effexor. I am still having some anxiety and depression but see the light at the end of the tunnel. (HOPE ITS NOT A TRAIN)!
Danny
Posted by SandiDee on August 23, 2005, at 18:17:25
In reply to Re: Effexor and wellbutrin, posted by TinMan on August 20, 2005, at 11:05:54
Today I saw my Doctor, a well informed one at that, about adding wellbutrin along with my effexor xr to combat the side effects I have experienced. She agreed that it may be what I need to "boost" my sex life a bit. I started today at 150 mg. wellbutrin, along with the 150 I take already of effexor xr. Hopefully the side effects of the wellbutrin will be minimal, which is what my Dr. expects. We talked at great length about the 2 meds, and she is very helpful, compassionate, and also careful. I would be interested to hear from anyone who has taken this combination as to what they have experienced. (a message to "TinMan", hang in there, I think I know what your going through, and I'm thinking about you. This thread has also been a godsend for me, I thought I was lost for a long time.)
Posted by julish on August 23, 2005, at 20:03:56
In reply to Re: Effexor and wellbutrin, posted by SandiDee on August 23, 2005, at 18:17:25
I am taking 300 Wellbutrin and 150 Effexor. Still not quite at the right dosage--but the wellbutrin does help. My pdoc suggests that I may need to increase to 450 Wellbutrin. I have to agree with that-- I think I'm on the right track.... two steps forward, one step back, kind of a thing going on with me.
Posted by TinMan on August 24, 2005, at 16:59:07
In reply to Re: Effexor and wellbutrin, posted by SandiDee on August 23, 2005, at 18:17:25
> Today I saw my Doctor, a well informed one at that, about adding wellbutrin along with my effexor xr to combat the side effects I have experienced. She agreed that it may be what I need to "boost" my sex life a bit. I started today at 150 mg. wellbutrin, along with the 150 I take already of effexor xr. Hopefully the side effects of the wellbutrin will be minimal, which is what my Dr. expects. We talked at great length about the 2 meds, and she is very helpful, compassionate, and also careful. I would be interested to hear from anyone who has taken this combination as to what they have experienced. (a message to "TinMan", hang in there, I think I know what your going through, and I'm thinking about you. This thread has also been a godsend for me, I thought I was lost for a long time.)
Hey, thanks for your words of support. So far, so good on reducing the dose of Effexor from 225 to 150 mg. I did have a mild panic attack this a.m. but knowing that it was a withdrawal symptom, I am okay.
Please let me know how you do on the Wellbutrin/Effexor combo. My Dr. does not want to put more AD's into my system, which is good BUT, I do want a sex life!
Sexless in Oz,
TinMan
Posted by tidge on August 24, 2005, at 17:51:50
In reply to effexor/brain quivers, posted by PamA on August 18, 2005, at 5:57:16
does anyone get hypotension with this drug...i'm on 225mg and feel faint and week everytime i get out of bed or stand on my feet for a long period of time. i'm also on wellbutrin 150mgsr twice daily and thinking about also asking my pdoc for provigil.
Posted by 4WD on August 24, 2005, at 20:49:33
In reply to hypotension, posted by tidge on August 24, 2005, at 17:51:50
> does anyone get hypotension with this drug...i'm on 225mg and feel faint and week everytime i get out of bed or stand on my feet for a long period of time. i'm also on wellbutrin 150mgsr twice daily and thinking about also asking my pdoc for provigil.
Hi. I didn't get hypotension but it did lower my blood pressure a little from maybe 120/80 down to 105/65. I was only taking 37.5mg though. So it is definitely possible.
Marsha
Posted by graceneeded on August 31, 2005, at 7:59:56
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
OK guys and gals ready for a ride? I will take my last Effexor XR on Saturday and be off Wellbutrin by Sept.12th. Going to go med free for a change (God willing). Have been on meds for over 12 years and I want to see if all I learned about depression, anxiety and OCD can be put to use. I rely alot on support from folks just like you and know we can survive! Keep me in your thoughts and prayers. I am sure I will be checking in but will not take Effexor again (God willing!!!!!) Danny
Posted by graceneeded on August 31, 2005, at 8:07:31
In reply to Re: Effexor and wellbutrin, posted by TinMan on August 24, 2005, at 16:59:07
Tinman there is a saying among the guys on one of my other links (Do IT Depressed)(Do It Anxious) or (Do It Affraid). You get the point. I know how you feel about the lack of sex-drive on the Effexor. For me it was a God send because thats all my mind would think about. The Effexor took it away as well as my desire. But as the above phrases say I went through the motions and the drive was restored thanks to my loving wife. We may not desire to do somethings but don't stop because the feelings will follow. Good luck and see you on the other side of Effexor. Danny
Posted by bookit on September 2, 2005, at 10:18:38
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
My doc has me on 500mg of Lamictal which is not working too well. He wants to put me on Effexor. At what dosage should I begin?
Posted by Razor on September 5, 2005, at 1:41:25
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by bookit on September 2, 2005, at 10:18:38
> My doc has me on 500mg of Lamictal which is not working too well. He wants to put me on Effexor. At what dosage should I begin?
After two years on cerzone it wasn't working. I've been on Effexor several months and it had quickly restored some happiness in life.
For me, each med seems to work for a few months or years and then doesn't. Maybe someday they can take a bloodtest and tell us what will work for each of us. Until then we have to work through the list and see which one works and which ones don't.
Good luck and if Effexor doesn't work for you, then tell your Dr and try something else. Something will.
Posted by graceneeded on September 5, 2005, at 7:10:16
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
Well I took my last 75mg. of Effexor XL on Saturday. From 225 to 0 in 2-3 weeks and boy what a noise in my head. I can hear my eyes move. Will be off Welburtin by Thursday so I guess I will be leaving this site soon. Had to take Dramimene and Benedrayl yesterday from seasickness. Keep me in your prayers. I am eating everything in sight.
Danny
Posted by gardenergirl on September 5, 2005, at 19:29:21
In reply to Off of Effexor as of Yesterday, posted by graceneeded on September 5, 2005, at 7:10:16
Hi,
Good luck on your withdrawal from Effexor. I just wanted to let you know that I redirected your posts and related replies to the Withdrawal board.Here is a link. http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/wdrawl/20050822/msgs/551052.html
Regards,
gg acting as deputy for Dr. Bob
Posted by wildcard on September 6, 2005, at 17:57:51
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by bookit on September 2, 2005, at 10:18:38
Effexor XR has worked the best so far and i've been on several meds.. My doc started me at 37.5mg for a week, then upped me to 75mg which wasnt helping so then 150mg and 225mg. I never took the 225mg but im about to start tomorrow. I do have to take 2-3 mg of klonopin daily though b/c effexor tends to make me feel edgy. Its worth a try.
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