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Posted by LynneDa on February 27, 2004, at 13:47:40
In reply to Re: sex complaints, posted by shadows721 on February 27, 2004, at 13:36:19
Hi Shadows - YES, I do agree with you & have the same issue!
The creative, kinky stuff doesn't work for me either. I'm 40, newly married for the 2nd time, have always had an above average drive, so is that an important part of my relationship & personal well-being - you bet! But, on the other hand I'm just SO glad not to be angry, sad and anxious, I am not as upset by it.
On an encouraging note, after 4 months on Lex, I am able to get there maybe once every 4 or 5 times as long as my husband holds back for as long as I need him to. I do enjoy the actual act more, now that I don't always have orgasm as a goal.
Additionally, many people on this board say Wellbutrin helps. It sounds like you are not wanting to add a med. I don't either. But, if it doesn't improve in a bit more time, I may get to that point. So far, my doc doesn't want to give it to me.
Hang in there!
~ Lynne
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Posted by mystic on February 27, 2004, at 18:00:34
In reply to Re: Hi everyone =), posted by mystic on February 27, 2004, at 11:51:01
Well been positive on this Lexapro but I'm telling you I feel horrible tonight very depressed and anxious and just dont feel right..I have had such ups and downs this past 3 weeks that Im not sure what is going on and very distressed...I'm feeling like if this is all there is then how can it all be worth it..but I will struggle on and hope that someday the good days will last longer than just a couple at a time..>Thanks for listening sorry to be such a downer....Mystic
Posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:24:29
In reply to Re: Hey Ya'll Lexaproers, posted by mystic on February 27, 2004, at 8:52:29
Hi Mystic, just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you and proud of you that you were able to make it alone to the dr. Baby steps, my friend. Maybe it would help to think of all of us and then you won't feel so alone when you are in those anxiety provoking situations. Just a thought. Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:30:56
In reply to Re: Hey Ya'll Lexaproers » sexylexy, posted by LynneDa on February 27, 2004, at 10:32:24
Hey Lynne, Hopefully the warmer weather will make us all feel better. I live in Western NY and it's supposed to be 50 degress here on Monday! Tropical! I feel really terrible that you are having such difficulty sleeping. Have you tried Tylenol PM. It always works for me when I am having trouble sleeping. I'm sure the stress you are feeling is not helping either. The stress keeps you awake, so your tired, which makes the stress worse! Been there! It will pass. You will make it through this with your terrific outlook and positive attitude. Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:37:36
In reply to Re: lex and a female question (more complaints), posted by Cathrina on February 27, 2004, at 10:32:58
Catrina, what a wonderful attitude! I am positive that you will overcome any difficulties you are having. I agree with your revelation that Lexapro has increased your feelings for your partner which makes sex even more intimate.From what I have heard, orgasm does return, so keep trying! I haven't had that side effect so I can't say from experience. My desire has never really been high. It's average. My husband is on Zoloft and his is even worse than mine. What a pair we are! We are so much more affectionate towards eachother and our relationship has moved to a deeper level but sex is not one of our top priorities these days. Good luck to you. Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:48:22
In reply to Hi everyone =), posted by modeljenn on February 27, 2004, at 10:54:23
Hi Jen, first of all welcome to the board. Secondly, you are doing the right thing by being proactive in your treatment of your depression. The feelings that you have described have been felt by almost everyone of us on this board! During the first few weeks you will feel tired, lethargic, anxious, you may have headaches and feel nauseous. These are all side effects of Lexapro and they will subside. Shortly you will begin to see your life in a different light. You may begin to realize how important your relationship with your husband is and that you have been living in a fog. Things will seem clearer. All of these things and more can happen with Lexapro. Anti depressants are not bad. They are forms of necessary treatment for some of us. Depression is an illness and should be treated as such. It does not make you crazy to want to feel better and to get help doing it. People who do not suffer from a mental illness sometimes have a hard time understanding those that do. They think that we have control over what's going on inside of our brains. We don't. It's chemical. Perhaps you could give your mother some information on depression and lexapro and maybe she would feel better about what's going on with you. Please don't do anything you will regret with this guy at work. You are in a committed relationship that you chose to be in. Don't let depression blur your reasons for marrying your husband. Having an affair will only confuse your situation more. Give yourself a couple of months to feel better and see where it takes you. Let us know how you are doing. Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:54:11
In reply to Re: Hi everyone =), posted by mystic on February 27, 2004, at 18:00:34
Mystic, we have all been where you are now. Hang in there and I promise it gets better. Don't worry about always having to be positive. We are not going to judge you in any way. All of us have our ups and downs and come to this board for support of our issues! We're here for you no matter what! Mrs. C
Posted by KathrynLex on February 28, 2004, at 14:46:13
In reply to Re: Hi everyone =), posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:54:11
It's been almost a month since my last panic attack, but I had one last night. I realize that it is only a minor setback...but it would be nice if panic attacks weren't something I needed to worry about anymore.
It was only a minor attack...cured with .25 mgs of Xanax. Maybe it was brought on by my period...Lex seems to be less effective around my time of the month. But it was horrible to revisit the irrational thinking, pounding heart and feelings of unreality that accompany a panic attack. I'll call my pdoc about it on Monday.
I'm disappointed, but I realize it doesn't mean I'm not getting better.
K.
Posted by mystic on February 28, 2004, at 15:18:46
In reply to A Frustrating Setback, posted by KathrynLex on February 28, 2004, at 14:46:13
Wow that is weird that you would say that you have a worst time at that time of the month I have been on Lexapro 10mgs for 3 weeks and this is my first period and I'm having an axiety attack as we speak...I feel all wigged out..this just doesnt seem worth it to me anymore..But maybe it is because it is that time of the month..Will stick in there and see what happens..Think I will take a xanax and try to chill...take care ...Mystic
Posted by AntiTrust on February 28, 2004, at 15:30:17
In reply to Anyone switched to Lexapro? « ggrrl, posted by Dr. Bob on June 11, 2002, at 7:52:48
I had been on the max dose of celexa for 3 years-recently pdoc changed me to the minimum dose of lexapro-depression is gone for now-husband sees a difference in my attitude but in the bedroom-it is still a joke trying to reach an orgasm. could be my age? don't know-isnt my patner he is DA MAN :) giggle :)
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 28, 2004, at 16:01:29
In reply to Hey Ya'll Lexaproers, posted by sexylexy on February 27, 2004, at 8:48:10
Posted by mrs c on February 27, 2004, at 21:21:48
Hi Lexy, good to hear your friendly note! I am feeling good. I still plan to increase my dosage but overall I am doing well. It's just those darn pesky feelings of dread creeping back daily that have got me worried. I'm still much better than I used to be so I am thankful everyday for that. And now I have all of you which makes all the difference! Thanks! How was your trip home? I remember when I lived out of state and how much I loved to go home again! What a great feeling. Now I permantly live back in my hometown again and love it! I wish the best for you. I know that you are doing the right thing by finishing your masters. It's only temporary and soon you will be back in the loving arms of home. Talk to ya soon. Mrs. C
Posted by mystic on February 28, 2004, at 16:27:36
In reply to Re: Hey Ya'll Lexaproers « mrs c, posted by Dr. Bob on February 28, 2004, at 16:01:29
Mrs C...You are such a help to everyone with your kind words...Im with you on the bad feelings...Just when you think that this is going to help it gets you again..Just having a bad day that is all....Thought I was getting better and now not sure...My daughter is having a baby in May and I worry about letting her down so much...I have planned the baby shower and now I'm anxious that I will not be well enough to take care of it...Or be able to take care of her when the time comes for the baby to come...So just want to get better that is all....Thanks for listening...Mystic
Posted by KathrynLex on February 28, 2004, at 17:02:03
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback, posted by mystic on February 28, 2004, at 15:18:46
Hi Mystic,
I've talked to other people on this sight who have had similar problems with Lexapro around their time of the month. I hope you're feeling better...Xanax did the trick for me last night, I hope it works for you.
K.
Posted by mystic on February 28, 2004, at 17:07:46
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback, posted by KathrynLex on February 28, 2004, at 17:02:03
Thank you K....I really appreciate the feedback...I did not take the xanax as meds are my phobia to begin with...My husband and Dr get very irritated with me because they say it will help...At the time that I'm not feeling well I have thoughts that I want to end it all and I do not have a plan as of yet but it is just an overwelming feeling..At that point i'm afraid that the xanax will make me feel even more depressed...I know it is weird and I have taken the xanax before and know it isnt going to harm me...But at this point I just feel like I'm going to lose my mind and not come back...But going to watch some tv and see how I feel later...Thank you soooooo much for responding to me...Mystic
Posted by BobYuma on February 28, 2004, at 17:47:09
In reply to A Frustrating Setback, posted by KathrynLex on February 28, 2004, at 14:46:13
Posted by KathrynLex:
It's been almost a month since my last panic attack, but I had one last night. I realize that it is only a minor setback...but it would be nice if panic attacks weren't something I needed to worry about anymore. It was only a minor attack...cured with .25 mgs of Xanax ....
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Hello, Kathryn.
Very strange ... I can't remember the last panic attack I had .. until last night. Coincidence? I suppose so. I checked to see if the moon was full, but it wasn't (Laugh).I've been on Lexapro since Dec. 4. I think that's around 12 weeks. It's probably been at least 8 weeks since my last panic attack. Wow. I've been trying to piece together the details of yesterday to try and figure out what brought it on. The only thing I can come up with is that I was totally exhausted when I finally made it to bed last night, and about 10 minutes after I lay down is when the attack hit. Just as you said, it was a rather minor attack, it's just the fact that I had one that bothers me most.
Have you ever noticed that you are more anxious or easier to have the panic attacks if you are extremely tired?
The only other thing is that I lowered my dosage from 10 mg's to 7.5, but it's been several weeks since I did that.They say that you should try to find something good in everything that happens. So I guess if I absolutely had to find something good about that panic attack, it's the fact that it was more of a nuisance that anything else. This time even the fear of the attack took a back seat to the nuisance. I realized this after it was all over with, does that mean we actually get use to panic attacks? (ya gotta laugh)
I hope the best for you, Kathryn. God Bless.
BobYuma
Posted by Twuffy on February 28, 2004, at 23:04:19
In reply to Re: lex and a female question, posted by sexylexy on February 22, 2004, at 18:48:43
I have been getting a lot of cramping throughout the month. I keep thinking it must be coming. This cannot be good. Why is this drug affecting our sexual organs?? And I don't feel much better. If at all. Its been a few months.
Posted by Rainspirit on February 28, 2004, at 23:07:42
In reply to Re: Hi everyone =), posted by mystic on February 27, 2004, at 18:02:04
Posted by Bubbasmom on February 28, 2004, at 23:09:05
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback, posted by mystic on February 28, 2004, at 17:07:46
Hi Mystic-
I'm sorry that you are having such a rough time today but please remember that it it just today. When you wrote that you don't have a plan yet... it just hit me wrong, I guess and made me worry about you even though I don't know you. You said that your daughter is going to have a baby - that's a wonderful thing. Try not to look at it as anything other than a gift. You get to be a grandma. That little person is going to love you (warts and all) because you're his or her Grandma! The two best things in the world are cuddling a newborn and fuzz therapy (of the animal variety - my dog is great for that!) Please don't feel like ending it all is the answer. Don't do anything that will keep you from knowing your grandchild or from him/her knowing and loving you just because you're you. I hope that you feel better and clearer soon. Try not to be frustrated and keep posting on the board as there is a lot of love and support here.
Michelle
Posted by Bubbasmom on February 28, 2004, at 23:19:08
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback - Mystic, posted by Bubbasmom on February 28, 2004, at 23:09:05
Hi everyone-
I'm officially on week two and I have to say that I am definately feeling the effects of the lex. The headaches and nausea are gone as is the weepy feeling and the loss of confidence. I can actually smile now and I actually laughed yesterday and it felt really good. I know that I will have my rough days, too (like everyday that I have to go to the job I hate but am bound to until July) but I am just trying to find moments of everyday that I can enjoy and feel good about instead of trying to conquer the day as a whole. I don't think I'm ready for that yet! My overall sense of well being has definately improved and I am trying to come to grips with the fact that some things are just out of my hands. I love to read all of your posts about how you're all doing. I don't feel alone in all of the feelings that I have because of all of you. I just wanted to give you all an update and say thanks again for listening and offering your support!Michelle
Posted by mystic on February 29, 2004, at 10:12:11
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback - Mystic, posted by Bubbasmom on February 28, 2004, at 23:09:05
Thank you Katherine for your wonderful words...I'm feeling about the same this morning and just trying to be positive...I felt so good for a little while and I just am wondering how long it takes to final be on even ground..It will be 4 weeks this week and I know that I have read that you get some relief in 2 weeks but the real benefits come at 4-6 I pray that is the reason I'm feeling so bad at 3weeks...Going to get out of the house today hopefully and try to get my mind off it...My mind just thinks all the time and is so in tune to how my body feels...Thank you everyone on the posts they really do help...and Have a great day...Mystic
Posted by mystic on February 29, 2004, at 19:15:28
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback - Mystic, posted by mystic on February 29, 2004, at 10:12:11
Hello everyone...Well really feeling terrible still...not sure what to do and if to continue on this Lexapro just took a xanax and not feeling a whole lot better...going to call it a day and hopefully able to work tomorrow...I cant believe that I still feel this bad...My thoughts are sooo strong and my thoughts are wondering...Tried to get out and take a walk and get some fresh air but had a terrible anxiety attack while walking...Will pray that tomorrow will be a better day...Thanks...Mystic
Posted by tmhwrite on February 29, 2004, at 19:54:06
In reply to Re: A Frustrating Setback - Mystic, posted by mystic on February 29, 2004, at 19:15:28
Honey, I'm telling you, I had anxiety to the point I thought I was having a heart attack. Zanax only made me so sleepy I couldn't function, couldn't work, couldn't hardly get out of bed. Clonazepam is what did the trick for me. You might want to ask your Dr about it. It resolved my anxiety issues and didn't make me so sleep that I couldn't function. It has less side effects than Zanax. I've been using it two weeks now and was nervous as hell about trying another medication, but it works beautifully. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Hang in there, baby.
Theresa
Posted by tmhwrite on February 29, 2004, at 19:57:39
In reply to Hello Everyone, posted by Bubbasmom on February 28, 2004, at 23:19:08
I'm so happy that you're doing better, Michelle! Yipee! Overall I'm doing better, but I still have that kind of flat feeling -- no real true joy yet. The anxiety is under control, though, which is what was the worst thing for me. Thought I wasn't going to make it through that.
Take care,
Theresa
Posted by tmhwrite on February 29, 2004, at 20:09:28
In reply to Re: lex and a female question, posted by Twuffy on February 28, 2004, at 23:04:19
These drugs affect people differently. Lex may not be the drug for you if you've been on it months and you feel no differently. It's also important, though, to keep a journal to record your good days and bad days, because when we feel bad it seems we've felt bad for months when maybe that isn't quite true. It's also why it's important to stay in close contact with our doctors and make sure that we're on the right drug. Sometimes, unfortunately it's just hit or miss as to what works with each individual person, but you have to keep trying unless you find you can function without anything. I know I can't. I've tried many times. I certainly wish I had all the answers for you, but I pray you keep trying to find them and find what works for you.
Posted by kellieann7 on February 29, 2004, at 22:41:11
In reply to Hello Everyone, posted by Bubbasmom on February 28, 2004, at 23:19:08
Michelle,
I'm glad to hear you are feeling better, and Lex seems to be working.
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