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Posted by Journeyman on February 23, 2004, at 21:02:21
In reply to Journeyman, posted by KathrynLex on February 23, 2004, at 14:13:37
K,
That's kind of you to say. There's no secret.
Here's the past: I've spent virtually my whole life trying to mold myself to other people's wants, needs, and expectations. My sense of my own worth has been a reflection of others' feelings about me. If they liked me, I was good; if they didn't, I was bad or inadequate.
Here's the present: I take regular 'temperature readings' of how I'm feeling and I am grateful for whatever feelings I have (that includes the good the bad and the ugly). I've learned recently that the bad and ugly have no power over my psyche as long as I welcome, accept, and learn from them. They are messengers, every bit as important to teaching me as are the good feelings.
Here's the future: I accept that as living matter, I am really no different than any other living organism. We're all connected by the web of life, and as such, I can empathize, embrace, and enjoy all that is.
The most influential reading I've been doing lately, and I've really gotten through only a few pages of it, is "Radical Acceptance," by Tara Brach. I highly recommend it if you have a tendency to beat up on yourself for having negative feelings.
Enjoy your path,
Journeyman
Posted by Tawny on February 23, 2004, at 21:26:20
In reply to Re: lex and a female question, posted by sexylexy on February 22, 2004, at 18:48:43
Yes, this happened to me the first two months, but not after that.
> Anyone spotted between periods on lexapro? I know this may be too much info but I do not know who else to ask, I have had brownish/pinkish discharge for a week now, I thought it was the old period coming on but no thus far. Anybody feel me?
> Lexy
Posted by Simus on February 24, 2004, at 1:35:46
In reply to Re: Feeling Flat on Lexapro » linnie, posted by TexCuz on February 23, 2004, at 11:56:02
> > All these messages about Lexapro - ye Gods! I didn't like Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor and then Lexapro. My doc said "STOP taking the Lexapro right now" and started me on Carbatrol for BiPolar Disorder/Mild -to-Moderate symptoms. This is after 3 years of treatment with SSRI's. I am also on Klonopin and Neurontin which are ALL anti-seizure drugs. I am a MESS. Withdrawal from SSRI's? Side effects of Carbatrol? I'm anxious, crying, dizzy, unsteady, horrible dreams, etc. I'm 6 days into Lexapro withdrawal...but how much longer? ALL I want is to feel NORMAL....not happy, or joyous, just NORMAL!!
>I have no answers, but I sure can relate. My heart goes out to you. Hang in there, better days are coming.
Posted by BobYuma on February 24, 2004, at 7:44:08
In reply to Day 4, posted by Bubbasmom on February 23, 2004, at 17:25:41
> >... I've been kind of thirsty and kind of sleepy about three hours after I've taken it. Anyone had this happen? > > >
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Hello, Michelle. Thanks for giving us an update.
About the being thirsty, I can't say yes or no to that, since I drink bottled water all day long. It's something I got used to when I decided that water was something that all of us probably needed to drink more of. Water seems to be like the old saying goes, "The more you drink, the more you want."
As far as experiencing the sleepiness about three hours after you take the Lexapro, I've ended up taking mine around 10 PM, so if I'm sleepy in about three hours, it doesn't matter.
God Bless and please keep us up to date on your progress.
BobYuma
Posted by Mariposa on February 24, 2004, at 9:59:07
In reply to Mariposa, posted by Journeyman on February 22, 2004, at 21:33:45
> Hi,
>
> How are you feeling? Any news on the thyroid? There are a lot of us thinking about you, wanting to know how you're doing.
>
> JourneymanHaven't posted much lately, but still read posts daily. Have increased to 25mg on my own, can't get in to see pdoc until April, he's SOOOO busy! Was feeling aggravated at everything and impatient, probably should go to 30mg but can't afford it until it's doc approved for ins. Thyroid is still enlarged, but do not feel like I have any other symptoms associated with this problem.
Thanks so much for thinking of me, you are a wonderful caring person!!
Best of luck to us all!!!~~~8|8
Posted by marfaith on February 24, 2004, at 10:03:35
In reply to Re: Feeling Flat on Lexapro -- Sam, posted by BobYuma on February 23, 2004, at 14:29:33
I am new to this board. It is great to know that there are other people out there that understand how others are feeling. I realize it is still early yet to feel any different. From what I have read from yours posts is that it takes a good nine weeks to really notice a difference. I have a lot of anxiety and I have this constant dread hanging over me. Hope this works for me as well as it has for others. Good luck to all. Mary
Posted by KathrynLex on February 24, 2004, at 10:45:03
In reply to Day 4, posted by Bubbasmom on February 23, 2004, at 17:25:41
Hi Michelle,
I hope work is going well. It's great that you're feeling good enough to be going back to the office!
Lexapro made me thirsty and tired for the first 3 weeks that I took it. Both are fairly common side effects and they go away after a little while. Just keep a glass of water near by.
K.
Posted by KathrynLex on February 24, 2004, at 11:03:25
In reply to 1st week on Lex, posted by marfaith on February 24, 2004, at 10:03:35
Hi Mary,
I take lexapro for anxiety and depression. It worked much faster on my depression that it did on my anxiety. I started at 10 mg and had to increase to 15 mg after about six weeks because I was still having mild panic attacks.
If your anxiety is severe enought that it's causing you great discomfort on a daily basis I would suggest talking to your psychiatrist about taking a benzo on an as needed basis. I recommend this to a lot of people because they can really work wonders for intense anxiety or panic attacks. Ones to try: Xanax, Klonopin and Lorazepam.
Another thing to keep in mind is that the first 2 weeks or so, Lexapro can actually increase your anxiety. I'm not sure why or how it does that but a lot of people have reported an increase in anxiety during the first couple of weeks that they take Lexapro.
Having been where you're at, I can assure you that it does get better. It gets much better. Hang in there and you'll start to feel a gradual reduction in your anxiety until one day you wake up and realize it's gone.
K.
Posted by KathrynLex on February 24, 2004, at 11:06:10
In reply to Re: lex and confidence, posted by mrs c on February 23, 2004, at 19:18:36
Hi Mrs. C,
I'm glad my post helped. I really hope that you start to feel better soon. Let me know if you decide to increase.
K.
Posted by TexCuz on February 24, 2004, at 11:56:34
In reply to Re: Feeling Flat on Lexapro » linnie, posted by TexCuz on February 23, 2004, at 11:56:02
After 3 yrs on various SSRI's for anxiety & depression, my doctor has rediagnosed me as mild bipolar and says the SSRI's were making it worse.
I am on day 7 of 200mg x 2 of Carbatrol. However, the withdrawal symptoms from SSRI's and
"start-up" symptoms of Carbatrol are almost identical so I am all screwed up. Sweating, anxiety, insomnia, dizziness, headaches, instability, crying jags, etc. I also take Klonopin and Neurontin, so I'm on a whole handful of anti-seizure medications. Anyone else in the same rocky boat? Is it worth waiting it out?
Posted by marfaith on February 24, 2004, at 12:52:20
In reply to Re: 1st week on Lex, posted by KathrynLex on February 24, 2004, at 11:03:25
> Hi Mary,
>
> I take lexapro for anxiety and depression. It worked much faster on my depression that it did on my anxiety. I started at 10 mg and had to increase to 15 mg after about six weeks because I was still having mild panic attacks.
>
> If your anxiety is severe enought that it's causing you great discomfort on a daily basis I would suggest talking to your psychiatrist about taking a benzo on an as needed basis. I recommend this to a lot of people because they can really work wonders for intense anxiety or panic attacks. Ones to try: Xanax, Klonopin and Lorazepam.
>
> Another thing to keep in mind is that the first 2 weeks or so, Lexapro can actually increase your anxiety. I'm not sure why or how it does that but a lot of people have reported an increase in anxiety during the first couple of weeks that they take Lexapro.
>
> Having been where you're at, I can assure you that it does get better. It gets much better. Hang in there and you'll start to feel a gradual reduction in your anxiety until one day you wake up and realize it's gone.
>
> K.Hi K
I do have Xanax. I have taken that for quite some time. Not on a continuing basis, but as needed. I take it to help me sleep or else I will be wide awake at 2:00 am and won't be able to fall back asleep for a couple of hours. The kind of panic attacks I get are when I first start to fall asleep. It's like I have to force myself to wake up or else I am going to die. I don't get them all the time. I hate those! I have noticed that I have been feeling a little jittery this week. My problem is that I can't enjoy anything good that is going on in my life because I am afraid something bad is going to happen. As if my worrying will prevent it from happening. Does that make any sense? That's what I mean when I say that I have this feeling of dread hanging over me. Thanks for responding. Mary
Posted by Cathrina on February 24, 2004, at 16:50:32
In reply to Re: lex and a female question, posted by mrs c on February 22, 2004, at 21:07:16
Have been on lexapro for almost 4 months now... a little fatigue now and then but no major side effects... so I thought. Lexapro has saved my marriage. We're once again very connected with very little bickering or resentment towards each other. Thus, this renewed connection in each other has sparked alot more interest in our love life. But, I now have a very difficult time reaching orgasm. Before lexapro I was mulit-orgasmic even while we were having major problems. Now it's a rarity that I even reach orgasm. Has anyone else experienced this?
Posted by LynneDa on February 24, 2004, at 16:57:20
In reply to new to the board... sexual problems??, posted by Cathrina on February 24, 2004, at 16:50:32
Hi Cathrina -
I have also been on Lex for about 4 months, I upped once from 10 mg to 20 mg during that time. I too cannot orgasm easily at all and I used to be an easy & quick "orgasmer" (at the age of 40 even). It takes too long and I usually decide to give up. I'm not sure what to do either. It bothers my husband as much, if not more, than it bothers me.Some say Wellbutrin fixes that problem. Others say taking your Lex right afterward, at night, helps because it starts to wear off. This has not worked for me. I'm about ready to ask my doctor about Wellbutrin, but I hate taking another med!
I guess I'm not much help, but I can certainly empathize with you!!!!
~ Lynne
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Have been on lexapro for almost 4 months now... a little fatigue now and then but no major side effects... so I thought. Lexapro has saved my marriage. We're once again very connected with very little bickering or resentment towards each other. Thus, this renewed connection in each other has sparked alot more interest in our love life. But, I now have a very difficult time reaching orgasm. Before lexapro I was mulit-orgasmic even while we were having major problems. Now it's a rarity that I even reach orgasm. Has anyone else experienced this?
Posted by LynneDa on February 24, 2004, at 17:02:03
In reply to new to the board... sexual problems??, posted by Cathrina on February 24, 2004, at 16:50:32
Cathrina - Forgot to focus on the positive for you ... Three Cheers and congratulations that your marriage is stronger due to Lex taking care of some of your other issues :-). I'm very glad to hear that and can say it has made a big difference in my marriage as well - I'm much easier to live with. Thank goodness for that positive outcome!!
~ Lynne
Posted by KathrynLex on February 24, 2004, at 17:17:55
In reply to Re: 1st week on Lex, posted by marfaith on February 24, 2004, at 12:52:20
Hi Mary,
I know exactly what you mean about going to bed terrified. That was me until 4 weeks in to Lexapro. Interestingly, my psychiatrist told me that it is very common for panic attacks to occur at night and many people who suffer from anxiety/panic feel that worrying prevents bad things from happening to them. The Lexapro really helps with that. I'm so grateful for this medication. I haven't been worrying at all for the last several weeks, at least not the way I used to. It's such a huge relief. Give it some time and don't rule out increasing if you don't feel better by week 9. I'm wishing you the very best, I've been where you're at and it can be terrible. But you won't be stuck there for much longer.
K.
Posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 17:32:24
In reply to 1st week on Lex, posted by marfaith on February 24, 2004, at 10:03:35
Hi Mary,
I had anxiety to begin with, but then my anxiety increased ten fold the first week on Lexapro. I thought I was either having a heart attack or going insane. My doc prescribed Clonazepam in addition to the Lex and that cleared it up completely. Made me a little sleepy at first, but it was a miracle drug to me as bad as I was feeling. Might be something to consider if your anxiety is preventing you from functioning.
Best of luck and hang in there.
Theresa
Posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 17:52:20
In reply to new to the board... sexual problems??, posted by Cathrina on February 24, 2004, at 16:50:32
Well, it's kind of strange because the first time I was on Lex (last spring -- why I ever quite I don't know) but I didn't have the sexual side effect that time. This time, though, can't achieve the big O. I don't know whether it's due to the Clonazepam or the Lex, but it's very frustrating because I used to have a very strong libido. I'm in a new relationship (no sex yet) and I'm a little worried about it. Are you on any other meds besides Lex?
Theresa
> Have been on lexapro for almost 4 months now... a little fatigue now and then but no major side effects... so I thought. Lexapro has saved my marriage. We're once again very connected with very little bickering or resentment towards each other. Thus, this renewed connection in each other has sparked alot more interest in our love life. But, I now have a very difficult time reaching orgasm. Before lexapro I was mulit-orgasmic even while we were having major problems. Now it's a rarity that I even reach orgasm. Has anyone else experienced this?
Posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 18:09:32
In reply to lex and confidence, posted by sexylexy on February 22, 2004, at 18:05:45
I know what you're saying. My confidence level has also decreased. It's like being traumatized and it taking awhile to get over that traumatic feeling. I'm a real estate agent (in addition to looking for another tech writing job after being laid off almost a year ago) and it's so hard for me to even make plans to really pursue the business because I'm afraid I'm not going to be able to perform -- that I'm going to go back down into that dark hole again and then disappoint my clients or not do a good job. Making complex plans is hard. Having been in this place before, though, I know that it will get better and I know that I will get back on top of my game again. And this time, I won't get cocky and think I can make it on my own without the medication. Give it some more time, Lexy and you will wake up one morning and feel that same sense of confidence and well-being. From your posts I've read, I can already tell that you are a very unique, special, caring person who deserves all the best life has to offer. When that day comes we both feel sincere joy we can celebrate together.
Theresa
> Hey Ya'll
> Just wanted to write and say hello. I went out of town to for the weekend to visit my friends. It was a nice weekend, I was pretty happy but am just not back to "me" again.
> However, from what I have heard it takes about 6 months to really feel "back". For me its really a lack of confidence. I used to be really secure, happy and confident. Now I just kinda feel like there is a shadow lurking around waiting to pounce and make me depressed. I am just ready to get some inner light and confidence back. Any one feel the same, anyone have any ideas? I would love to hear. Hope everyone else had a great weekend.
> Lexy
Posted by mystic on February 24, 2004, at 18:16:24
In reply to Re: lex and confidence » sexylexy, posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 18:09:32
Hey....Been on Lexapro for almost 3 weeks now...Feel a little better...anxiety is still not that great but better...My appetite seems to be coming back which makes me very nervous about the weight gain...When I was on Paxil for 7 years I gained over 45lbs and have worked hard to take it off...Has anyone had any significant weight gain on Lexapro I'm on 10mgs...Thank you
Posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 18:26:16
In reply to weight gain, posted by mystic on February 24, 2004, at 18:16:24
I had a slight weight gain when I was on it before, but I can't really say whether or not it was due to the medication or change in eating habits. I actually gained a lot more weight over the summer when I got off it (depression) and I've lost a few pounds in the past few weeks I've been back on it. Just try to do some kin of physical activity every day, even if it's just 20 minutes walking or on a treadmill or something. Best of luck to you.
Theresa
Posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 18:28:51
In reply to Re: weight gain » mystic, posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 18:26:16
"Acceptance is not a state of passivity or inaction. I am not saying you can’t change the world, right wrongs, or replace evil with good. Acceptance is, in fact, the first step to successful action. If you don’t fully accept a situation precisely the way it is, you will have difficulty changing it. Moreover, if you don’t fully accept the situation, you will never really know if the situation should be changed."
*Peter McWilliams {American Author}
Posted by sexylexy on February 24, 2004, at 19:20:19
In reply to Re: lex and confidence » sexylexy, posted by tmhwrite on February 24, 2004, at 18:09:32
Thanks so much for your post. It made me feel so good. I think we will have a huge party the day we beat this hell called depression!!!
Lexy
Posted by mrs c on February 24, 2004, at 21:02:28
In reply to Re: Day 4, posted by mystic on February 23, 2004, at 19:40:05
Hey Mystic, glad to be able to help. I found this board to be a lifesaver during my first weeks on lex. I still come everyday for reassurance and support. You will feel less and less anxious as the days go on. Just hang in there and look to the future. Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on February 24, 2004, at 21:07:09
In reply to Re: Day 4 -- Bubbasmom, posted by BobYuma on February 24, 2004, at 7:44:08
Michelle, I am still very thirsty on Lexapro after over 4 months. It's a good thing for me though because I never used to drink enough water and now I drink all day (and pee). I also take my lex at bedtime so I dont notice the sleepiness. In the beginning though I was tired all day and also wired at the same time. A very strange feeling and hard to explain unless you've felt it. Keep looking forward. Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on February 24, 2004, at 21:08:39
In reply to Re: Mariposa » Journeyman, posted by Mariposa on February 24, 2004, at 9:59:07
Mariposa, good to hear from you again. Sorry to hear that you are not feeling your best. I hope it gets better soon. Mrs. C
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