Posted by anastasia56 on February 9, 2005, at 23:36:31
In reply to Re: that gave me chills it's so romantic » anastasia56, posted by Toph on February 9, 2005, at 22:05:55
so you come from a wonderful family, successful siblings and it sounds like you live in a pretty nice house. i'm assuming your wife lives there too? if so, why is the house empty? do you mean devoid of human contact or children?
i don't know if you did or didn't instill confidence in your children. if you didn't, then you will have to learn to forgive yourself for that, just as so many grown up children here at babbleland have learned to forgive the things that have been done to them. forgiveness happens every day because it's the only way to get on with life and be halfway human about it.
You say your wife is nice...does that mean you love her? or does it just mean she is nice? if you do love her it sounds like behavior modification to try to eliminate your negativity is in order. If you don't care one way or the other, you can drive her into the ground by seeing the world in total grey.
i remember reading about the people you've helped. i know you are a good person who deserves a good life. you have to be the one that loves you the most first. then you have something to pass on to the next person, your wife. if you don't feed yourself, love yourself, you will have nothing to give.
it all starts with you. i know you can be the one.
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