Posted by a very little sphinx on June 14, 2003, at 4:28:29
In reply to How would YOU feel??, posted by tina on June 13, 2003, at 20:23:11
> Your spouse decides to leave you and moves out and where does he go??? To your own brother's house..... Tell me if I'm justified in being angry and hurt... I think I am.
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people always do what they think is right, very seldom do people actualy "choose" to do something in order to hurt people... I am talking about actions here, as people can say things to hurt people flipantly with very little care. You don't need justification for anger, or for feeling hurt... Those emotions belong to you, and they do not need to be validated.
Be angry, be enraged, feel slighted, but do not feel lessened... you are the same as before, someone's actions which where made for their personal benifit have caused you ill, and yet you still sleep with no peas beneath your matress.
poster:a very little sphinx
thread:233800
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