Posted by alexandra_k on August 18, 2013, at 1:37:22
In reply to Re: new p-doc, posted by alexandra_k on August 18, 2013, at 1:28:12
and then of course my problem is that 'i think i'm smarter than them'. which i do. because i am. it shouldn't matter... they are the ones that insist on it being about smart. they are the ones that insist on it being about logical distortion. then when i try and explain what i mean a little more clearly (because i'm really not that stupid to have said / believed in what they were very quick to jump on as a logical distortion) then i am guilty of rationalizing.
after a while of playing this game.... they can't help me. their words. because... they have done what they have been trained to do. and i'm not appropriately helped. i'm not appropriately appreciative of their efforts.
they never even listened to me.
or if they do...
they just say they don't know what to say... they... catch my mood. they are stuck. and either i end up showing them the way out or we both are stuck there.
they aren't able to... just observe me doing my thing without getting sucked in. without their trying to interfere with my process to fix it (which usually makes things worse). they are just... not very helpful.
and they certainly won't... let me be me.
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