Posted by Cal on July 7, 2009, at 6:49:16
In reply to Re: looking for support, posted by crootie on July 6, 2009, at 10:42:02
You ask why must you ask for things all of the time? I think if our T's were to step in and make suggestions as to what we need and when we need them, it would take away your chance to become autonomous to individualize. I know I can email my T between sessions and often times dream how much I would like T to email me out of the blue to ask how I am doing, but I know that isn't really what I need, that would just suggest unconsciously that there must be something serious/dangerously wrong with me that T needs to do that. Her remaining calm and unperturbed by me helps me put my emotions into place, if T feels I can make it between sessions then I learn also that I can make it between sessions.
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