Posted by annierose on December 1, 2007, at 17:41:24
In reply to Re: Yet another T attraction thread (after termina, posted by rskontos on December 1, 2007, at 17:19:22
everthing Daisy said ....
And, college therapy certainly has its ups (free sessions) and downs (early termination).
Are you still on your parent's health insurance? If so, maybe you can begin a search for a therapist who has a private practice. It seemed you liked the style of the psychodynamic t, you can screen a lot of ts on the phone by asking about their orientation, etc. There are other threads in the archives on this too.
Most of all, I don't think your t crossed any boundaries. I don't think he lead you on to believe his feelings for you were romantic. Saying that "he liked you" was true. It's different than saying, "I'm falling in love/like with you" ... which potentially is unethical.
A psychodynamic therapist likes to work with the feelings that come up between the client and the t. For me, those are the hardest and most wonderful sessions to sort through.
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