Posted by happyflower on October 10, 2007, at 10:35:48
In reply to Re: My T makes me feel safe » happyflower, posted by Wittgenstein on October 9, 2007, at 4:07:28
> Good idea!! Please buy him some socks! My T has done the socks and sandals 'stunt' before. Definite no-no. But having his tootsies poking out... oh my!!!
yeah, I had to look twice to see if what I was really seeing. But then it is hard to not look like you are looking.
I had one session where my T had a big stripe of toothpaste down his front -
I am not sure if I could sit their and not say something. lol That is too funny!
> To be honest I doubt he notices what I wear - or maybe I'm naive.
Well it is there job to notice, because what and how you wear it says a lot about your mood, etc. But being comfortable, is a good thing. ;-)
> How nice to feel safe with your T. My T makes me feel safe too. Sometimes I imagine he is a hammock (ok this sounds bizarre) - the feeling that I can relax and he will support me/cradle me - the desire of a little child but a nice safe feeling all the same.
I love this ! Is it okay for me to use sometimes? It is exactly how my new T makes me feel sometimes.
First, I felt so ashamed to cry in front of him but a couple of weeks ago I cried freely - it was such a painful time - but I didn't feel ashamed anymore.I am still getting there, I stil feel self conscious about it, but relieved that I do feel safe to let those emotions out.
Thanks for your support Witty, you are a delight to talk to in chat and on the boards.
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