Posted by Dory on October 9, 2007, at 8:53:07
In reply to dressing up for T, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 9, 2007, at 7:08:15
i fuss over what to wear to the laundry place! well, if i am doing ok that is. i am a complete and utter slave to my closet. i love it.. it loves me ;o) It's a sure sign that i am not doing so great when i just look the part. i can feel bad and dress ok, and i like a lot of clothing that is far from "polished" so i can often look rather... well, punky... or i can look office professional. That stuff is sort of mood dependent i guess, but not like what you said Ll.. just more what i feel like wearing, not entirely what i feel like.
we've joked a little about clothing too.. b/c he's noticed the dramatic range of types of clothes i like. i noticed HF's comment about dressing for T or not.. thought about that one. i do. i do spend time thinking about what to wear.. and for me, it's because of my own quirky ways of dealing with insecurity. i want him to like me as much as possible (not in *that* way). i want him to see the best of me, even if it's a stupid contradiction to how i feel. i fight allowing him to see the worst of me. It's not him, he's been totally accepting.
interesting subject HF, even if it was kind of a side thing
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