Posted by Orchid on November 22, 2006, at 14:11:51
In reply to Re: dvd card for ex-t -- good or bad idea? » orchid, posted by shrinking violet on November 21, 2006, at 19:24:30
Hi SV
I understand your point perfectly well. But I have my doubts about whether it would work. And if it doesn't have the desired effect on her, you might be even more frustrated and pained.But I do agree, that writing her a long letter and telling her how you felt would help you move away. I am not sure she will respond to that either, but I think it will help you to close the chapter and move on.
But what I would like to suggest even more is for you to find solace in some other person or a group or activity. I am positive that if you meet other caring and nice folks in your life, then this T will become very insignificant in your life, and you will be able to dismiss her as just an ordinary human with lot of faults of her own and who doesn't probably deserve all this attention and pain from you.
poster:Orchid
thread:705782
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20061109/msgs/706216.html