Posted by daisym on October 20, 2005, at 18:10:20
In reply to Do I have to go back?, posted by Annierose on October 20, 2005, at 16:28:28
I only know why I get mad...I don't want to be the reasonable one, the one who keeps trying and the one who needs to change. I don't want to hear that the only thing I have control over is myself and my response. (I ALREADY KNOW THAT!) I want my therapist to say, "he should have said x,y or z." I want to hear, "it must be really hard for you to be around him." I'm tired to taking the high road. stomp! stomp!
And yes, you need to keep talking about this. It is really hard, because I think some part of us (again, speaking for myself) thinks if we don't find a way to 'make nice' we are being b**chy and holding a grudge. And actually protecting yourself is the wisest thing to be doing.
I hope tomorrow goes OK.
poster:daisym
thread:569404
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