Posted by orchid on October 20, 2005, at 17:27:41
In reply to Re: Talking about transference to your husband/SO? » orchid, posted by JenStar on October 19, 2005, at 19:15:25
Hi Jen,
Yes, I think you are right!! I shouldn't unnecessarily burden him with all the unwanted details.
But maybe your other suggestion of starting to talk about him slowly is also good. He does know quite a bit about therapy, and therapists being mirrors and patients being attached to therapists etc. And he also knows a little about my attraction. So maybe he would have suspected it anyway!! But it may not be necessary for me to worry him with the full extent of knowledge. Plus it might put too much of strain on the marriage, and it is not going to bring anything constructive. So myabe I will just keep it like this.
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