Posted by alexandra_k on August 16, 2005, at 18:31:48
In reply to Re: Terrible Session » cricket, posted by alexandra_k on August 16, 2005, at 16:39:40
There is something... Apparant coping?? Maybe thats it... I can't remember... It is when people appear to be cool calm collected competent and together (shame that didn't start with 'c') when on the inside they feel like they are falling apart.
Maybe your t isn't getting how vulnerable you feel.
Especially if you guys have been fighting and / or having mostly intellectual discussions...
But then... You are hardly going to risk the vulnerable parts if it happens that when you take a risk (like you did with the dream) that he will stomp on them :-(
I don't think all is lost...
I remember that you have been talking for a while about an urge to run away.
And I really don't think that that would be best.
Sounds like you get on mostly - it is just that things are hard sometimes and there can be miscommunications.Please try to sort it out.
Tell him what you think the dream meant to you...
Even if you are wrong (and I don't reckon that you are)
Its important what you think it means because its in light of that that what he said about it hurts so much.I'm sorry that things are hard at the moment.
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