Posted by orchid on August 10, 2005, at 15:28:21
In reply to Orchid and » sunny10, posted by Susan47 on August 9, 2005, at 22:15:29
The reason why you perhaps felt the intense need for him to be right is perhaps you mistakenly identified yourself with him too much.. and thought that for you to change, he has to be what you thought of him to be.
But it need not be so. You can change, irrespective of what he is. You both are different persons, and not one.
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