Posted by pinkeye on July 12, 2005, at 13:33:23
In reply to Re: I'm sick » Jazzed, posted by Dinah on July 12, 2005, at 12:27:01
I think you are not perverse. We all have different kinds of responses to being attached and being cared for ... it triggers many different types of feelings in each of us - sometimes in triggers anger, hurt, pain, jealousy, anticipation of losing it, possessiveness, etc etc..
There really is no right way to feel about soem things.. it is moulded into your soul from the day you are born, by varied kind of experiences.. it is incredibly hard to change that into feeling the right thing. You are definitely not perverse..
What I do when I am afraid of trusting is, nowadays, I try to only trust God.. and let myself depend on men and others as necessary without really forming intense attachment to them.. I allow myself to get attached, but only to a certain extent.. I always know there is a possibility that they will fail, but my full dependance is only on God, so I will not be hurt so very much even if they do.
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