Posted by PM80 on June 22, 2005, at 11:53:42
In reply to Should I tell my T....., posted by cricket on June 22, 2005, at 11:38:25
Tough choice. It sounds like you are really trying to be honest with yourself and see this from multiple angles. That is definitely a good thing. I had two thoughts after reading this.
1. If you do decide to go once every two weeks, maybe you could think more about what went on and make a point to remember what was said since you would have more breathing room. You would not have to have an answer or a response so quickly. You can take your time and get beyond the feeling threatened part of the response. I find that when I go two weeks between sessions ('cuz of holiday or vacations), I have a better perspective. I get past the hurt a little better.
2. what if you took this pros and cons list into your session? It could definitely be something to discuss. Your T may be able to help you find the right answer for YOU.
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