Posted by Dinah on May 4, 2005, at 17:45:40
In reply to Re: Well, the thing is » Dinah, posted by Pfinstegg on May 3, 2005, at 17:14:15
I talked to him about this today. He says it doesn't feel manipulative to him.
He says that it sounded to him that I was saying that if X,Y, and Z happen that what I need him to do to help me was XXXXX. And that he was glad that I told him what I needed.
He said he didn't feel that my feelings about it were a burden. He said he did have feelings of responsibility toward me that arose from the relationship, but he didn't consider them a burden.
He's a pretty cool guy.
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