Posted by Poet on April 8, 2005, at 18:00:03
In reply to Recipe for disaster?, posted by pinkeye on April 8, 2005, at 17:22:36
Hi Pinkeye,
You've posed an interesting question. My T told me that some dependence is strength, not weakness as I see it.
If I allow myself to be more dependent, I will be allowing a trusting relationship with someone. She said that she hated the feeling of being dependent when she was in therapy (wonder who her therapist was, maybe I can get an appointment- lol) but she understands why it's important for a relationship.
I don't know as I am still trying hard to be independent, but everytime I say I want to quit therapy, back I go.
Poet
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