Posted by mair on January 27, 2005, at 21:34:09
In reply to Re: How to know if it's time to change therapists? » Racer, posted by daisym on January 27, 2005, at 20:44:10
Racer -I'm not sure I have the best perspective about this because it's taken an age for things to start working with my T - I'm been seeing my T light years in relation to how long you've been seeing sparkling bright.
You do know what works for you; I just wonder if your expectations about how long it should take before you feel comfortable expressing your emotions are unrealistic.
It's a tough call, because it doesn't necessarily answer the question if you can't ever see yourself getting "there" with her. I've said that countless times with my T; and I still say it and feel it and believe it. On the other hand I have to admit that I can talk to her now about topics which would have been untouchable before.
Maybe my T has just conditioned me to be comfortable moving at a snail's pace.
Mair
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