Posted by messadivoce on January 17, 2005, at 20:17:29
In reply to Re: whining » messadivoce, posted by lonelygal on January 17, 2005, at 18:41:10
Lonleygal, if it ever stops hurting (I hope it does someday) then I hope you don't feel guilty. When I miss my former T I try to tell myself that he wouldn't want me to be in such pain. Just because you stop being sad doesn't mean that your former T didn't mean anything. It just means you choose to remember them in a different way. My grief for my former T is diminishing, and I smile more when I think of him. That is how he would want it. I'm sure your T wouldn't want anything less.
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