Posted by jonh kimble on December 30, 2004, at 3:17:35
In reply to social perfectionism still ruling my life, posted by jonh kimble on December 28, 2004, at 2:57:33
Hmm, I could see a guilt styled get in line format having been somewhat indoctrinated in me from when I was young. One time someone got very angry at me for a small thing, I of course started to come apart with distress etc.. only to find out they were joking and using it to teach me. After that I have never felt better. I cant really expect love ect.. if its not me acting, and fear of disaproval etc.. are immanent. How is this working for you? Are you happier yet?:) Tom
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