Posted by Rigby on October 22, 2004, at 23:59:38
In reply to Re: Need Advise » Rigby, posted by crushedout on October 22, 2004, at 17:07:55
Are you actually longing for these things because you want them or longing for them because you feel you're supposed to have them?
> Oh, I'm sort of okay. I have some pretty serious ups and downs and I'm at a point in my life where I'm really longing for things that I'm "supposed" to have now (house, money, family, stuff) but I'm not there yet, and it's hard.Dang. This thing has just really taken hold. And it sounds like your brain is telling you that she's not all that but still, it's not the brain that's calling the shots here. She sounds like an addiction to me. Do you think you could try and say take a month off from her and go to someone else? Just to try *something* in the pattern to break it?
> As for my T, I really can't figure out what's going on with her. I do feel like maybe I don't completely trust her (and haven't in a long time) and that I should probably find someone else, but I don't feel sure enough about that to actually make the move. Especially since I'm still really attached to her. I guess I'm still in love but it's hard to tell. It's the weirdestSorry to hear this. It will get better though.
> So, basically, I'm in this horrible kind of limbo in every way and my life just kind of sucks. But thanks for asking.Great emoticon.
> :) :( :) ?
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