Posted by pegasus on October 3, 2004, at 17:48:30
In reply to Help! I don't understand my T, posted by Speaker on October 3, 2004, at 13:57:48
Oh, wow, Speaker. I know that in your shoes, I would feel very hurt. This seems like it really needs some sorting out between you. I liked Daisy and shortelise's suggestions. Especially about taking the tape back and trying to work out what was going on from his side, and from your side.
From where I sit, it seems as though he ought to have said something to you about how he wanted to handle the tape right when you gave it to him. To let a month or so go by with no comment from him, and then to find out that he never even watched it . . . that's pretty hard to understand, at least for me.
Maybe he has some perfectly valid reason for not watching it, and wanting to watch it with you. But I think he really ought to explain that reason to you. And I think it would be good if you could explain how his response so far has made you feel. Otherwise, I could see this becoming a big obstacle to your relationship.
Good luck, and let us know what you end up doing about this.
pegasus
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