Posted by pinkeye on May 4, 2004, at 15:43:54
In reply to Re: is sorry ok ? » toomuchpain, posted by Fallen4MyT on May 4, 2004, at 15:35:47
Hi Toomuchpain,
Whether we like it or not, our therapists have such a huge impact on us, and it is difficult for us to lead a full life when we are at war with them. So for your own well being, make a list of all the good things that your therapist had done for you in the past, how much he had meant to you. He did cause you some harm knowingly or unknowingly, but he is human too. And he himself is apologizing now for his mistakes. So it makes lot of sense to extend yourself now and forgive him truly. It won't probably undo all the hurt that he has done to you, but it will definitely open a door towards your own healing.
Pinkeye.
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