Posted by pegasus on April 22, 2004, at 23:41:36
In reply to Re: I told Ellen about the consultation today » pegasus, posted by crushedout on April 22, 2004, at 22:53:22
Hi crushed,
Sorry, I don't really know how the consultation thing works. But I have heard of people doing it. I guess you make an appointment with a 3rd T and you and your T are essentially the clients. What I'm unclear about is whether you pay the other T and your T for the time, or what. Someone here did it recently. I can't remember who it was, though.
I think your posts have sounded more grounded, and less vulnerable lately. You've sounded to me a little less desperate about your relationship with your T. More in control, and more thoughtful about your relationship. Which is all good.
You know, I agree with falls too about Ellen saying that she was scared. I think her feeling scared makes her sound more like she's not sure she's doing things right, and sad or disappointed would be reactions that might come from a more solid, professional footing. Just my take.
pegasus
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