Posted by BigFish on April 22, 2004, at 16:50:43
In reply to Re: rainyday and penny, posted by emmaley on April 22, 2004, at 15:52:37
> It's frustrating, but the reality (as I see it) is that he can only travel with me to a certain emotional depth and then, for some reason, I feel like he disappears or stays in his head. I tell him, and he agrees with me, and then the same thing happens again. Again. Again. I keep telling him and he keeps agreeing with me. I believe that he is doing the best he knows how and he is very kind with me, but I just hate feeling so lonely and left in the cold when I disclose so deeply. It's a standstill. I am not sure if terminating is the best step, but it's the best I can think of for the reasons above and he agrees, so.
Dear Emmaley,
Your distress sounds deep. I remember reading a post of yours from Sept. in which you discussed a deep bond/attraction to your T. Has this faded, or could this be part of the problem?
I'm sorry that I can't think of anything helpful to say, but please know that I hope you feel better soon.
BigFish
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