Posted by Kath on June 9, 2000, at 17:26:38
In reply to Re: Shar, thanks for thinking of me : ), posted by me-but-not-me on June 9, 2000, at 16:45:17
Hi Me-But-Not-Me (wasn't sure if you'd prefer to be called Shelley in these written parts?)
I'm thinking of you too. I haven't read many of your posts, so didn't know you were feeling so bad. I'll think of you. If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know. (Letters, e-mails, etc.)
I'll try to keep up with how you're doing. And by the way, whining is perfectly okay with me. If you need to whine, post a message to me and I absolutely guarantee that I will NEVER criticise you (even in my mind) for "whining". It's important to give ourselves the right to have our feelings. It's also important to be able to have those with whom we can share those feelings and know we'll still be accepted and loved. Please feel free to consider me one of those people.
Kath
> Your post was full of good advice :) It is just so hard sometimes ... I am sitting here right now, avoiding going. I am still at work, have been off the clock for nearly 3 hours now and feel immobile. I am holed up in a cube in a corner where I can be anti-social. This is stupid, because I should be home scooping up after the cats and preparing for my stay if it happens. I feel so beligerant today... people at work are on my nerves and I am afraid to go there with this attitude. I do think a short stay is just what I need, though... to remove the distractions and excuses,etc.
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> I will let you (all) know what happens. I didn't post because I was sort-of out of it again and felt I had nothing much to report, thought it would only be whining.
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> Thanks for even offering to write! You are very sweet. I hope I will not be in there that long, though. I don't know if I will have access if/when I go in to stay -- if I can sneak my laptop in, I can 'Babble' all night long : )
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> Thanks for being there, and for thinking of me. I really mean it when I say it helps tremendously to know that you are out there caring. Some days it is hard to believe anyone does, ya know?
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> I will keep in touch.
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> -MBNM (otherwise known as Shelley)
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