Posted by CarolAnn on May 29, 2000, at 9:08:00
In reply to Re: SUICIDE, posted by kathy on May 29, 2000, at 0:00:57
kathy, just by writing to us, you have made friends who understand what you are going through. Please, keep writing, let us know how you are doing as often as you can. If you keep coming to this site, you will see that whenever anyone is in real trouble, we all worry about them. Now we are all worrying about you, and we really need for you to keep in touch.
Now, this advice is from me, specifically: I know it will be hard, but when anyone says to you that your husband left, because you were a bad wife. You say to them (or at least think to yourself),"YOU ARE WRONG, HE LEFT BECAUSE HE WAS A BAD, BAD, HUSBAND!". This is the absolute truth. He was a bad husband! The fact is, a *good* husband (any good person!)would have either stayed to work things out, or would at least have stayed long enough to support you until you were strong enough to face a divorce.
kathy, please stay with us. We do care and we do understand and we do want to help.
Sending you love,
your friend, CarolAnn
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