Posted by Noa on March 13, 2000, at 5:59:51
In reply to Re: this old house, posted by bob on March 12, 2000, at 23:01:48
I agree. Certainly don't set youself up to fail by expecting to get the house in shape before his visit. Just put it out there without making too big a deal of it. I agree with the others that given that he likes you, and you met in the psych ward, for goodness sake (been there, done that), I don't think you saying your house is a mess and could we get together somewhere else is going to break the friendship.
Good luck.
BTW--my apt? the cleaned up spaces are filling in rapidly. I'm definitely doing the obstacle course dance again.
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